I propose that “being” is the new “doing.”
Because being is still doing something…stay with me.
It’s a bit like having a choice to make and deciding not to decide. That, too, is still a choice.
When I reflect on the themes that show up across the work I do—and in my own inner dialogue—I notice a consistent, powerful pull toward doing: filling time, accomplishing tasks, staying productive. So much so that when there’s nothing to do, it can feel uncomfortable…even unsafe. (You can insert your own word there.)
There is research and ample evidence showing that when we feel restless, unable to relax, or struggle to quiet our minds during moments of downtime, our nervous system is often operating in a survival state. When we stay locked in a constant cycle of doing, it becomes ingrained. We slip into autopilot—moving through the motions, disconnected, and increasingly out of touch with ourselves and what we actually need. Intention fades. Awareness narrows.
So stay with me a little longer.
What if we shift our mindset and recognize that being—still, reflective, intentional—is an active practice? This kind of being is essential for nervous system regulation. It creates space to gather insight, notice patterns, and listen inward so we know how—and when—to take the next right step.
As the new year begins, this is my intention:
That each of us creates time and opportunity to be—or at least begins to form a relationship with being.
To be intentional with our time, energy, commitments, creativity, and lessons. To remain present enough to make decisions from a place that feels aligned and authentic. To breathe, feel, think, and move from a grounded, clear space—rather than from reaction.
Being is proactive.
Please know how deeply grateful I am for the time, presence, and conversations I’ve shared with each of you. I learn and grow through every exchange, and I look forward to continuing this work together—as we learn, grow, and heal.
If you’re noticing how hard it feels to slow down—or how unfamiliar “being” feels to your body—you don’t have to explore that alone.
Reiki and therapeutic support can offer a gentle space to settle your nervous system, reconnect with yourself, and practice being in a way that feels safe and supported. You’re welcome to reach out if this work feels like a fit for you.